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Valentines Day With Young Living Oils

Let me share a few essential oils and uses with you for Valentines day that have been shared with me.

These are all natural oil is made with essential oils and skin-nourishing natural oil for a sensual and enjoyable time with your partner without the toxic ingredients often found in store-bought products.

Lets get started!

Oils to use:

  • Rose

  • Lavender

  • Roman Chamomile

  • Eucalyptus Blue

  • Eucalyptus Globulus

  • Eucalyptus Radiata

  • Stress Away

  • Peace and Calming

  • Sacred Sandalwood

  • Joy

  • Peppermint

  • Ylang Ylang

  • Jasmine

  • Abundance

  • Believe

  • Dream Catcher

  • En-R-Gee

  • Envision

  • Gratitude

  • Highest Potential

  • Inspiration

  • Into the Future

  • Longevity

  • Magnify Your Purpose

  • Surrender

  • Transformation

  • Valor

Oil Diffuser Recipes

Use: Add oil # of drops to diffuser then fill with water

Love Struck

5 drops Clary Sage

3 drops Bergamot

3 drops Ylang Ylang

Burning Love

2 drops Cinnamon

2 drops Ginger

2 drops Ylang Ylang

Endless Love

3 drops Sandalwood

3 drops Lavender

2 drops Ylang Ylang

Be Mine

4 drops Orange

2 drops Ylang Ylang

2 drops Lavender

All You Need is Love

6 drops Ylang Ylang

3 drops Patchouli

2 drops Orange

Hooked On You

2 drops Orange

2 drops Lavender

2 drops Ylang Ylang

You’re Still the One

2 drops Clary Sage

2 drops Stress Away

2 drops Cedarwood

Blissfully Happy

4 drops Joy

2 drops Grapefruit


3 drops Patchouli

3 drops Lavender

3 drops Ylang Ylang

V-day Love'n

2 drop Cinnamon

2 drop Patchouli

1 drop Ylang Ylang

2 drop Rosemary

2 drop Sandalwood

Roller Recipes

Use a roller bottle and add # of oil drops then fill with carrier oil (fractionated coconut oil or avocado oil).

Apply to back of neck, wrist, bottoms of feet, and or inner thighs.

Word of caution: when using photosensitizing oils (i.e. citrus oils like orange), wait at least six hours before exposing the skin to UV rays.

Love Potion No.9

15 drops Ylang Ylang

8 drops Bergamot

8 drops Black Pepper

Date Night

15 drops Joy

10 drops Bergamot

5 drops Geranium

O Romeo, Romeo

15 drops Idaho Blue Spruce

15 drops Hong Kuai

Awesome Sauce

4 drops Bergamot

4 drops Ylang Ylang

4 drops Sandalwood

3 drops Orange

3 drops Rosemary

2 drops Ginger

2 drops Black Pepper

Red Hot

15 drops Sensation

10 drops Black Pepper

5 drops Peppermint

Hey Mister

15 drops Mister

10 drops Idaho Black Spruce

5 drops Ylang Ylang

Bringing Sexy Back

15 drops Clary Sage

10 drops Ylang Ylang

5 drops Cypress

Goddess Divine

15 drops Ylang Ylang

15 drops Idaho Blue Spruce

Dessert Recipes

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Massage Recipes

Use with each recipe: Into a glass jar/bottle, carrier oil (olive oil, almond oil, coconut oil, etc. You want something with a low scent that is as natural as possible), add oils and Mix your oil very gently to combine and let stand overnight. The oils will blend and balance out over the next 12 hours, making your sensual massage oil really smell 'just right'!

Word of caution: when using photosensitizing oils (i.e. citrus oils like orange), wait at least six hours before exposing the skin to UV rays.

Love Me Sweet

6 drops Orange

4 drops Clary Sage

4 drops Ylang Ylang

2 Tablespoons of Fractionated Coconut Oil or Almond Oil

Exotic Sensual

15 drops sandalwood

10 drops orange

5 drops ylang ylang

3 drops clove

8 oz fractionated coconut oil

Romantic Mood

15 drops rose absolute

10 drops sandalwood

3 drops patchouli

8 oz fractionated coconut oil

Relax & Make Love

10 drops lavender

10 drops orange

5 drops clary sage

8 oz fractionated coconut oil

DIY Sensual

Choose your own personal scents for your sensual massage oil (recommendations below!), depending on what mood you are trying to inspire!

Into a small glass jar, add 1/4 cup carrier oil (olive oil, almond oil, coconut oil, etc. You want something with a low scent that is as natural as possible)

Add 1 tsp essential oils of choice (see below) or use multiple essential oils that add up to 1 tsp total

Mix your sensual massage oil very gently to combine and let stand overnight. The oils will blend and balance out over the next 12 hours, making your sensual massage oil really smell 'just right'!

Here are a few aromatherapy suggestions for your sensual massage oil recipe (check out AromaWeb for a full listing):

  • Calming scents: Bergamot, Cedarwood, Cypress, Frankincense, Hyssop, Lavender, Marjoram, Myrrh, Neroli, Orange, Peach, Rose, Rose Geranium and Violet Leaf.

  • Scents Used as Aphrodisiacs: Jasmine, Rose, Sandalwood, Vanilla, and Ylang-ylang.

  • Energizing scents: Angelica, Benzoin, Camphor, Cardamom, Cinnamon, Clove Basil, Cypress, Eucalyptus, Fennel, Lemon, Peppermint, Pine, Sage and Spiced Apple.

  • Scents to Deal with Stress: Bergamot, Chamomile, Cinnamon, Cloves, Frankincense, Lavender, Lemon, Marjoram, Myrrh, Neroli, Nutmeg, Orange, Petitgrain, Rose, Sandalwood, Sweet Melissa, Valerian, Vanilla, Violet, and Ylang-ylang.


Making homemade massage oil is incredibly easy. All you need is a carrier oil and the essential oils of choice. The basic 'recipe' is about 15 drops of essential oil to 30 ounces of carrier oil. This will vary a bit, though, depending on the oils you choose and your personal preference. The warming oils (cinnamon, cloves, rosemary) are stronger and have a greater chance at irritating sensitive skin so start off with a lower concentration and add more as desired.


Your sensual massage oil should stay good for several months as long as you store it out of direct sunlight in a cool location. Brown glass bottles are best but as long as you store your massage oil in a cool, dark space you should be able to use it for several months.


So, you've made your massage oil. Now, how do you actually give a romantic massage?

This is KEY: You want the space calm and inviting and you want to be fully focused on your partner. Pour your Love into your partner by your hands and feeling what they like and don't be selfish just think about how you are going to make your partner feel and this will help lead up to a frisky long night ahead OR a sweet loving cuddly end to the day.

Here are a few tips:

Prepare YOURSELF: Take off your jewelry or watch, and snip your nails shorter, Your hands will be busy for a while. Do a bit of research on massage techniques before you start. Know where the key spots are to help loosen and relax your partner. Most stress is carried in the neck, shoulders, and back.

1. Set the Scene: Clean up the room, close the blinds, turn off the TV and Phone, make the bed, and spray sheets with DIY sheet spray (listed below).

2. Lay down a towel: Oils will stain your bedsheets. Lay down an old towel to protect your linens.

3. Turn up the thermostat: There is no way your massage will have the desired effect if your significant other is laying there shivering!

4. Add some mood music: Make a romantic playlist on your iPod and turn it on low.

5. Light a few candles: Scented or unscented, there is something about candles that just screams romance!

Clean Up: End your massage with a warm bath or shower to remove excess oil.

Room Spray

Use on sheets, pillows, curtains, & more!

Love Me Tender

10 drops Sandalwood

10 drops Bergamot

3 drops Ginger

3 drops Lime

2 drops Ylang Ylang

1 tablespoon witch hazel

4 oz Spray bottle

top the rest of your bottle with distilled water

Shake every time before using

Wild Thing

4 oz spray bottle

15 drops ylang ylang

10 drops grapefruit

1 tablespoon witch hazel

top with distilled water

shake every time before using



Aphrodisiac Inhaler Blend

3 drops Geranium essential oil

3 drops Orange essential oil

3 drops Ylang Ylang essential oil

2 drops Lavender oil

2 drops Patchouli oil

1 drop Lime essential oil

1 drop Clove essential oil

1 Blank Essential Oil Inhaler

Directions: Add all drops of essential oil to diffuser wick, place the wick into the inhaler.

To use: place inhaler under nostrils and deeply inhale the aroma.

Personal Lubricant

Forget the store-bought lubricants. They're loaded with chemicals, synthetic fragrances, and preservatives that you don't want anywhere near your body. Instead make this easy DIY Personal Lubricant that has a warming and cooling sensation. It feels amazing! Just leave it on the bedside table and use it when the mood strikes.

Option 1:


2 oz fractionated coconut oil

10 drops Sensation or Ylang Ylang essential oil

4 drops Black Pepper essential oil

4 drops Peppermint essential oil

US Customary - Metric


Add all ingredients to a 2 oz pump or dropper glass bottle.

Shake well and leave on the bedside table.

To use, shake well before use. Pour 1-2 tsp amount into the palm of the hand. Rub on body parts where you need the personal lubricant... and yes I mean those delicate parts. You'll feel a cool and warm sensation. If the sensation is too strong, dilute with carrier oil like coconut oil.

Option 2:


4 oz Spray bottle

4 drops Lavender

4 drops Peppermint

3 drops Geranium

2 drops Jasmine

5 drops Ylang Ylang

3 drops Black Pepper

4 drops drops Cypress

Top off with fractionated coconut oil

Have Fun!

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